The Cane

by AJB

When I want to bring the pain, I grab the cane.  I am an aficionado of impact toys and discipline scenarios, and for my purposes the cane is often a final destination, a toy of torment to build towards, the grand finale in an explosive scene, or the punishment of last resort for the recalcitrant bottom.  Ah, the cane.  I relish even thinking about it; fond and recent memories are floating through my mind.  But a warning – it is not a weapon to be wielded lightly. (more) by AJB

Flogging as Foreplay...

by Catalina

“Tonight I’m going to lay you over the edge of the bed and I’m going to flog your ass.”  The words I love to hear from my Husband (and Dom) Marky D. Sade.  We have a nice suede flogger that is perfect for us.  What makes it perfect?  Not only is the suede soft enough to flog for a good while before the build-up of pain that I so deliciously anticipate, but it can also be twisted up in just such a way that it snaps like a whip.  (more) by Catalina

Talk to the Hand

by AJB

Dominance can be daunting. For the novice, a walk into the BDSM flavored adult toy-store presents a cornucopia of possibilities: floggers of all sizes, paddles, slappers, crops, bats, canes, single tails, dragon tails, bullwhips, ropes, clamps, gags, oh my!  You think to yourself: “where do I start?  How do I use these things? What type of personal fortune must I amass to respectfully equip myself?” Whoa there, cowboy.  Next to your mind, the first tool you have is right at arm’s length. It’s at your fingertips.  It’s your hand.  (more) by AJB